There’s a lot of arouse in Venus Saturn after this affix. () in the comments and I also had someone email an intriguing question so I am going to write about this for awhile. I don’t have a Venus Saturn aspect in my chart however I undergo a lot of Capricorn and most everyone I have ever been involved does undergo Venus mashed up with Saturn one way or the other so I have a of undergo with the energy and where it’s supposed to be all bereft. I don’t see it that way.
Venus mashed with Saturn gives integrity to relationship for example and do relationships without integrity last? I guess not. Anyway someone emailed to ask if ever felt frustration over the situation with the soldier. The wanted to know if I was always accepting and the say is hell no. I was not always accepting and hell yes I have been frustrated beyond belief and still feel that way on a routine basis. It works like this:
When we were kids we met this contend and never mind his side. I balked. He was going into Special Forces and he made it very clear to me he could be killed. He went as far as to say it was probable which was the truth is of course.
And Saturn between the charts hits my Mercury hard (Mars less so) so I couldn’t communicate. I couldn’t communicate because he was so alpha and know-it-all but also because I was scared to death. There were things I needed to disclose (I was lying about my age for starters) but I was afraid I’d be rejected if he found out I had no integrity! There were other things I was afraid to express him because I was afraid of his potentially violent reaction which boils down to a hold back (Saturn) thing.
I could go on and on but if you go away to put this together you can see it is nothing but a situation fraught with worry and limitations. Go through all this hell to try to talk to him and he’s going to die anyway so what the hell? I’m out of here! But was that a mistake?
come up yeah. We think it was and we are paying for it now in ways that are hard to quantify or even express and I’ll furnish you an example.
Say he tells me the story of something that happened to him or something he saw in the course of his life that injured him and I comprehend.
come up first the affect matter itself is disturbing. I wouldn’t put it on this blog for example because it would harm people just to read it. So there is pain at that level but its driven much deeper by our knowing that had we taken a different path the event would not undergo occurred. It simply would not have happened because our lives would undergo taken a different direction had we been together.
For example he says he is sure he’d have still gone into SF but if he were married to me he’d have gotten out after four years. He thinks he’d have done this because he’d have missed me to much and also we would undergo wanted to do something together.
See. I am an ultra game adventurous woman and furnish line. I am more fun than SF guys you know? Plus I have that shiny hair and all so anyway we also blew up in 2003.
And in 2006 when this came up again I spoke with friends and explained how incredibly hard it was to broach with him and his circumstance. All his circumstances. I could (and did) go on and on the reasons why I could not and should not get involved with him but turns out you just can’t forbid your destiny because son of a complain if I am not doing the exact things I could or would not do 28 years ago. And so is he.
For example. I have to express him things I didn’t be to express him when we were kids… which happen to be
The death thing? Well that’s approve too. I was scared he would die then and I approach the same worry now. Because he’s nowhere near healthy as I am and in case I didn’t sight I had an astrologer look at his map and express when he was going to die… in the not very distant future,
Well I am not going to do that (again) but don’t evaluate it didn’t cross my mind. It did because it’s human nature to try to avoid pain.
But at this inform the hurt of denying the like while he is alive is worse than the look of losing him so I have taken this other road and yes it’s brutal. I convey come on. Do you know how many coffee dates be in my neighborhood?
But I don’t be some vapid ascend thing do I? I do not. I be the twists and the turns the surprise and the intensity. I be the loyalty and the like and the quality of nurturing that can’t be found anywhere but.
And I hope this inspires someone out there. Some person with Venus mashed up with Saturn in their map. Don’t let them express you there is no love for you… it’s a lie. The soldier has Venus inconjunct Saturn. Love denied and delayed? Yes.
But he has also been loved (Venus) to the hit the books (Saturn). Some people don’t even know what that is so considering that you tell me who is bereft.
It inspired me to go look at my husband’s map. Sure enough. Venus opposite Saturn. We had a long hold international relationship (across the Atlantic) for 2 1/2 years before we were finally able to be in the same place together for good. I do not have Venus in aspect to Saturn which explains why this was so much harder on him than it was on me.
What you wrote reminded me of the times when one of us would cobble enough money together to go see the other one. It was blissful but also incredibly painful because you know it is going to end and are trying not to mentally count down the days.
*sigh* great tale and all the better for being adjust. Is Uranus in there somewhere messing with the situation too? I have had these great relationships with populate where we had good solid Saturn connections but had a really hard time being in the same place at the same time (Uranus form idle in synastry)
My Aries has Venus(12th House) exactly inconjunct to Saturn in his 7th & I have Venus(1st accommodate) widely trine Saturn. We’re both very committed to our relationship and it’s a very good feeling to share that value. We did meet for the first time & were very drawn to each other about 3 or 4 yrs before we got together. Didn’t act on the attraction at that time because of other commitments.
I also undergo Venus inconjunct Saturn and undergo felt for a long measure that I probably was destined to be unloved. I’ve been thinking hard lately about what several of the comments on the previous post said that I undergo to love myself first…I’m going to be more therapy. I evaluate.
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